09 June 2008

A Kerala wedding in the US

We went to a wedding on Saturday at St. Thomas the Apostle church in Ann Arbour.
The church was built in 1835 or so. With stones outside, beautiful high ceilings, and pipe organs. Reminded me of the churches we see in Kodai/Ooty. They had a singer who did a wonderful job. Our full attendance at the reception.
There stands the bride and the groom. The bride sports the mantrakodi, the sari that comes as a gift from the groom. The mantrakodi apart from the thali forms the essence of the Christian marriage ceremony of Kerala.
Altar, the wedding register etc getting ready.
Here comes the bride.
Bridegroom and his best men arrive for the ceremony.
The part which is still is in our minds was when one of the best men fell flat. The noise is still echoing in our heads. We all thought he had a heart attack. Poor man, recovered enough to stand but he was swaying, so we called 911.
We happened to be in the front rows. So hubby helped. We had water, so gave it to him. None of us saw it happen, we just heard the noise.
It was a hot day and a long one at that! I suppose no one warned the poor man how long Indian weddings can be. Or how long the best men/bridesmaids get to stand!

8 comments:

Roshin said...

My bil fainted on his wedding day. It was hot and the burning incense also bothered him.
Hope u had a good time.

Anonymous said...

hehe.. i was just thinking then thank God it was not the groom!..it was right when minnu was going to be tied!
there was no incense..but i think previous service had..
Was telling b how many thought he would faint at our wedding..he was pouring with sweat thanks to those lights shinning on his face..
it was in a historic catholic church ..but wedding by our priests!

Anonymous said...

Yeah, I was wondering. Since it didnt have our typical Kerala style madbaha/altar. Which church is this?

Anonymous said...

this church is in Ann arbor.near MI university...can't rember name now..it it comes in my head will tell u.
thx
ust

Amos said...

Talking about wedding...never get married in May in Chennai... with the temperature soaring outside... you sweat like mad additing to the heat of the video camera lights.......AM

Anonymous said...

millers experience speaks!..it was bad in feb also.. the V. lights make it really hot! and no fans etc.
take care
ust

Anonymous said...

Could it be the First United Methodist Church?

MLK

Anonymous said...

the church is called St.Thomas the Apostle Church-found the wed.invite!
take care
ust